Jackass Magnet

Why You Keep Magnetizing People Who Piss You Off (And How to Stop the Madness) 

Look, I'm about to tell you something that might make you want to throw your phone across the room...

But stick with me, because this could be the ONE THING that changes everything.

You're Not Unlucky - You're a Human Magnet for Assholes

And here's the kicker... it's not their fault.

When life beats you down enough times, you do what any smart person does - you build walls. Sharp ones. The kind that can slice through BS and people who waste your time.

But here's what nobody tells you about those walls...

They don't just keep the bad stuff out. They broadcast a signal that attracts exactly the kind of people who will test every single brick.

The Mirror You Don't Want to Look Into

Those argumentative jerks who always have a comeback? The ones who challenge everything you say and seem to live for pushing your buttons?

Congratulations. You're looking at yourself.

I know, I know. You're probably thinking, "But I'm not like that!"

Except... when someone disrespects you, what happens? Do you go for the intellectual kill shot? Do you slice through their argument like a hot knife through butter?

Yeah. Thought so.

The Grief You're Hiding Behind All That Rage

Here's the thing nobody wants to admit...

Underneath all that anger is grief. Raw, unprocessed grief from every time someone dismissed you, misunderstood you, or made you feel small.

And anger? Anger feels powerful. Anger feels like protection.

But grief? Grief makes you vulnerable. And vulnerable feels dangerous when you've been burned before.

Your Strong Will is Attracting Other Bulldozers

You know what you want. You commit fully. You burn bright with conviction and expect others to keep up or get out of the way.

Sound familiar?

Well, guess what kind of people that energy attracts? Other bulldozers. People who refuse to acknowledge your brilliant ideas and push back against your plans like it's their full-time job.

Because the universe has a twisted sense of humor like that.

The Impatience Trap That's Eating You Alive

When people move slower than you (which is basically everyone), it drives you insane, right?

They need time to "process." They want to "feel their way through." They build "slowly and carefully."

Meanwhile, you're over here ready to set the world on fire with your vision, and they're still deciding what color pen to use.

But here's the brutal truth...

You're Judging Everyone by Your Own Impossible Standards

Every sharp word. Every judgmental thought. Every moment of impatience you send out into the world comes back to you like a boomerang made of pure frustration.

You've appointed yourself judge and jury of everyone else's choices, then act shocked when they don't live up to your standards.

Plot twist: They never asked for your approval.

The Real Reason You Stay Angry (This Might Sting)

Staying angry is easier than being vulnerable.

It's easier to blame everyone else for triggering you than to admit that underneath all that rage is a scared person who just wants to be seen and valued.

When someone hurts you, your immediate response is anger because anger feels like armor.

But what if... just what if... you said "I feel hurt" instead of "I'm angry"?

Revolutionary concept, right?

The Intellectual Kill Shot That's Killing Your Connections

You respect intelligence, clarity, logic, and truth. When people make emotional decisions that don't make sense to you, it probably makes you want to scream.

But here's what you're missing...

Not everything can be solved with logic. Not every problem has a rational solution. And sometimes, people can be completely illogical and still be making the right choice for them.

Mind-blowing, I know.

The Fantasy Villains You Create in Your Head

When someone triggers your anger, do you immediately decide they're selfish, stupid, or malicious?

Here's a thought: Maybe they just got devastating news. Maybe they're new and don't know the rules. Maybe they're having the worst day of their life.

But nah, let's go with "they're obviously a terrible person" instead.

Your Unlimited Emotional Options (Yes, Really)

When something happens that usually triggers your anger, you have choices:

• Anger (your current default)
• Curiosity about what's really happening
• Compassion
• Humor
• Indifference

Shocking revelation: You don't have to choose anger every single time.

The Pattern That's Running Your Life

You're attracting angry situations because you're carrying:

• Sharp communication that cuts instead of connects
• Strong will that crosses into control
• Harsh judgment of yourself and others
• Defended vulnerability hiding behind rage
• Intellectual superiority that dismisses emotional truth
• Projections of fantasy villains onto real people

 

Here's How You Break the Cycle (If You're Brave Enough)

Stop waiting for everyone else to change. They won't.

Start using your clarity and truth-telling with compassion instead of as a weapon.

Lead through inspiration, not domination.

Be willing to feel what's underneath the anger.

See people as they actually are, not as you wish they would be.

The Bottom Line

You being here reading this isn't a coincidence. You're ready to break this pattern.

You don't have to keep living in constant friction and anger. But the change starts with you taking responsibility for your own journey instead of giving up your power and waiting for the world to stop making you angry.

Because here's the truth nobody wants to hear...

The world doesn't care about your anger. But your life? Your relationships? Your peace of mind?

They're all waiting for you to put down the sword and pick up something better.

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Mahalo & Aloha 🤙🏽

 

About the Author: Ðean is a multi-disciplinary creative professional who combines personal experience with self expression. After overcoming significant hidden and personal setbacks, he now helps others unblock creative freedoms that provide time access for their passions. His approach combines the Hawaiian principles of Kokua (helping others) and Ohana (family) with proven strategies to leverage states of being and release the flow, which ultimately expresses our own personal journey.