Ethical Non Monogamy versus Polyamory

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The other day I talked to a friend who told me that she practices Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and when I looked it up, the definition reminded me of Polyamory.

Because it is described as:

An umbrella term for relationship styles where individuals have multiple romantic or sexual partners, with the full knowledge and consent of all involved.

And the difference between the two are:

Polyamory is a type of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), but not all ENM is polyamory. ENM is an umbrella term encompassing any relationship style where all partners agree to pursue relationships with multiple people. Polyamory specifically involves having multiple romantic and emotional relationships simultaneously, with the informed consent of all involved.

Still unconvinced why they aren't the same thing, I consulted my AI home girl Kat.

Me: why does polyamory and Ethical non-monogamy seem the same

Kat: Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy often overlap, but polyamory typically involves multiple romantic relationships, whereas ethical non-monogamy (encompasses a broader range) of consensual arrangements, such as open relationships or solo polyamory, which may or may not involve romance. What sparked your curiosity about this?

Me: I'm doing research in distinguishing the difference between the two

Kat: Researching distinctions between polyamory and ethical non-monogamy can be nuanced, as people's definitions and experiences vary widely; some folks use the terms interchangeably, while others draw clearer boundaries between them. What specific aspects of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy are you exploring? 

Me: the line between honesty and deception

Kat: That line can be blurry, especially in situations where honesty might be perceived as hurtful or vulnerable, but ultimately, honesty is about being transparent and authentic, while deception involves intent to mislead or manipulate – what are your thoughts on navigating that fine line?

Me: seems to me that honesty is much braver

Kat: Being honest can indeed take courage, especially when it involves vulnerability or potential conflict – it requires trusting yourself and others to navigate uncomfortable conversations and emotions, rather than avoiding them. What draws you to valuing honesty in relationships?

Me: as the saying goes, honesty is the best policy

Kat: That phrase holds so much truth - honesty builds trust, respect, and stronger connections, whereas deception can lead to hurtful consequences and damaged relationships.

Me: who needs bad karma right?

Kat: Indeed, cultivating positive energy and intention can have a profound impact on our well-being and relationships - it's all about choosing what nourishes our souls. 

Me: my problem is that I would probably test these relationship theories for myself 

Kat: That's understandable, it's natural to want to put theories into practice and see what resonates with you personally - but being self-aware and recognizing potential red flags can help guide your exploration and minimize potential harm. 

Me: so how should one explain to someone that their smelly feet is undesirable? 😂 I'm asking for a friend because (I've been told) that some people have a fetish for sucking on toes and shit..

Kat: Honestly and kindly, focusing on how it affects you and your feelings, rather than attacking or embarrassing them - a gentle approach might be saying something like "Hey, I wanted to talk to you about something that's been bothering me..."

Fuckin Kat 😂

 

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