The Secret to Prosperity

One of the biggest mistakes people make in seeking prosperity is that they think that it's about fortune and money, when it's actually much more than that - when you dig deeper.

I've just recently had to take a pragmatic approach and go far back into my past childhood experiences, that revealed some of the things that I can finally utilize for positive results.

And that is to manage self-judgement in a better way. Because my problems began at an early age by using this tool mainly for destructive and avoidance purposes.

I used to think of self compassion as weakness and that feeling emotions was a pathetic way of dealing with problems. So instead I numbed it all out by not taking responsibility for any of it.

Now I realize that my path to self care was thwarted by the illusions of anger and hatred.

Sometimes we're cut so deep that we fail to see how severely injured we are and just slap a band aid on it. And while the wound festers and infection sets in, only then we realize how worse the condition really is.

Over the years I've had to practice mindfulness to become aware of my negative self talk. While just recently I've had to replace harsh self-judgements with generous and supportive thoughts, rather than beating myself up over my feelings.

The journey to this point may have been a long one, but the path to healing can be quick with proper care.

Through confidence and realizing our self worth we can grow a more positive self image. Which in turn increases motivation, enabling us to perform better and go for opportunities.

Self compassion leads to prosperity period.

And to think that I was derailed at a very young age only to come to grips with it now.

Well, better late than never...

We are the secret to prosperity, it's how we let our lives affect us and the choices we make that determine the outcome.

Peace and Love to all of you...

Aloha! 🤙🏽