Free Yourself

 

Sometimes we can abandon ourselves to escape being left behind.

As a child I was approached with making decisions like this and I thought that it was unfair to be in these situations without any viable solutions.

So to avoid shame, guilt, resentment and pain, I chose to disconnect from my feelings instead of expressing them. 

Because at a very young age I didn't know how to voice myself without being ridiculed for my own self expression.

What I needed was for someone to help me communicate my feelings and discover healthy ways to explain myself.

Over time the lack of communication and disconnection only worsened. And I found myself moving from one failed relationship to the next over and over again.

In quiet times I found myself wondering and searching for the reasons why.

And what I discovered completely shook the broken foundation that I've built my life upon.

Finally through the rubble and destruction of my ego, I saw that everything had to be swept away so that I can start somewhere else. Because now the place where I stood and where my foundation was - was actually built on sand.

It's through these moments, we find that what burdens we've carried finally must be let down in order for us to really move on.

And for that, it takes the choice to change...

 

Aloha & Mahalo 🤙🏽